A story about you

"Let me crystal clear: if you faced a tragedy and someone tells you in anyway, shape or form that your tragedy was meant to be, that it happened for a reason, that it will make you a better person, or that taking responsability for it will fix it, you have every right to remove them from your life.

Grief is painfully brutal. Grief does not only occur when someone dies. When relationships fall apart, you grieve.  When opportunities fall apart, you grieve. When dreams die, you grieve. When illnesses wreck, you grieve. 

So I'm going to repeat a few words I've uttered countless times; words so powerful and honest they tear at the hubris of every jackass who participates in the debasing of the grieving:

Some things in life cannot be fixed. They can only be carried."